I might be a little jaded after living in Chicago (one of the largest cities in the US) for so long since it is so spread out, but one of the things that I loved most about Madison is that everything is so close! the capitol building, the cute shops and restaurants, and the University of Wisconsin campus were all within walking distance of my downtown parking spot.
So, I walked around for a little bit and took in the sights and then I did something I have never done before: I went to a restaurant and I ate dinner alone.
Until now, most of my site visits have been day trips where I leave early in the morning and am home for dinner with Alex. This was my first over nighter (without any colleagues), so I was left to my own devices for dinner. Dining out alone is WAY outside my comfort zone, but my options were to either order in by myself (lame) or check out a new city and its local restaurants... something I normally love to do (albeit, not usually by myself). Coincidentally, I read an interview a week earlier with singer Sara Bareilles about being fearless. One of her mantras is don't be afraid to be alone and she faced down that fear by going out to eat by herself. She said it is uncomfortable, but peaceful and a great exercise in fearlessness. Have you ever done it? Not going to lie, it's weird. Hearing "Anne, party of 1, your table is ready" is definitely a little awkward.
Beer battered cheese curds with smoked paprika aioli |

As uncomfortable as it was at first, I'm so glad I braved dinner alone. I went out and did one of my favorite things-- sampled local food in a fun new city-- and I survived! I think I'll try it again on my next trip too.
What are your thoughts on dining out alone? A do or a don't?
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ReplyDeleteI think dining out together more enjoyable.